A Titus... Please!

We want no visitors in the early mornings. We want no observers in our disheveled states. To my knowledge, the decorations of slumber...the embellishments of sleep...are not subjects of art or publication.

We are a mess in our weaknesses. We do not want anyone to see us in our frail moments. We do not want anyone to even be around us during our anxious and strained tests when the flesh is strong and the spirit is weak. (I wonder about the person who said that "misery loves company"?) None of us should be judged at our best, but "Please, Lord! spare us from seeing ourselves too much at our worst."

It greatly helps us to read that Paul was human. He stated in 2nd Corinthians 7:5, "...our flesh had no rest...we were troubled on every side...fightings and conflicts were all around us, and dread and fears were within". Every time I read over this part of Paul's ministry experiences I wonder, "How could things get any worse?" All of us knows how bad things can be at times.

We must be reminded that it is not great personalities, and great gifts, and great environments and great opportunities that make us great Christians. It is always great grace that molds and shapes and develops us through suffering and testing and hard places.

But Paul said something else about this terrible testing time. He said, "God comforted us by the coming of Titus".

Years ago I was in a college committee meeting on the campus while my younger brother was a student there. Remembering how college students were always short of cash, and as we were standing around ready to leave, I embraced my brother and pressed a good sized bill into his hand. He looked surprised and, with tears in his eyes while trying to return it said, "Oh, I can't take this, Lester. I've been asking God for some badly needed funds." Then he looked more startled when I replied, "R.G., God just answered your prayer."

God sent Titus. It was Titus. I was Titus. Too often "Titus" is right there, standing by our sides, holding our hands, looking into our eyes, embracing us, steadying us, easing the pain, sharing our sorrow, smiling at us, weeping with us. I have yet to meet a single person who turned down a little appreciation. It is the universal gift of propriety. Appreciation is always appropriate.

There are thousands of Christians who are struggling because they think that they are not counting for much in their families, or in their churches, or in their schools or places of employment. I would urge any of us to become "Titus-type" encouragers, and uplifters and appreciaters. Anyone can do it, and there is not a more neglected job in the church than it is. It can be done anywhere, everywhere, anytime and all the time!

Be a grateful person! Be a gracious person! Graciousness is finding fulfillment in someone else's happiness and enjoyment and well being.

"Dear Lord, Increase the Tituses among us. Amen".

Copyright by W.L. Boone.